When your child is a struggling learner, it can be scary.
My son struggled with reading and spelling, so I know firsthand what that fear feels like.
You feel responsible for making sure your child grows up being able to read and spell proficiently, because you know that your child’s future options will be limited without those essential skills.
You don’t want to see your struggling learner blocked from reaching his full personal potential, and you would do almost anything to help him overcome his struggles.
A struggling learner has to work harder than others around him in order to accomplish the same task or learn the same thing. The child may be a year or more behind grade level in one area or in all subjects.
There are many possible reasons for the child’s struggles. He may have physical disabilities that affect sight, hearing, mobility, or coordination. Or he may have learning differences such as dyslexia, dysgraphia, or auditory processing disorder. Interestingly, a struggling learner may be gifted in some areas, such as a child who is amazing with math but does not read.
One very common reason for learning struggles is that the child has not yet been taught in a way that works for him. For example, he may need the structure and logic of a phonetic approach to reading, but he is being taught with a whole language approach.
There are very specific teaching methods that you can use to help your struggling learner succeed. One of the most important things you will want to do is to use curriculum and teaching strategies that can be customized to meet his needs.
Even if other methods have failed to work for your child, the ten tips that follow will help you reach your struggling learner.
Direct instruction is a proven method in which the child is taught exactly what he needs to learn. With direct instruction, the information is presented very clearly through well-tested materials that rule out the possibility of misinterpretation and confusion. And your child is shown exactly how to apply the information, too. The explicit teaching of language rules and patterns means that your child doesn’t have to guess or struggle to figure out how to read or spell a difficult word.
Incremental means that lessons start with the most basic skills and gradually build up to more advanced skills. Each lesson builds upon previously mastered material, and gradually increases in difficulty.
Incremental instruction provides a “no gaps approach” that allows your child to learn one new piece of knowledge at a time in a well-thought out, logical sequence. With this approach, kids can successfully climb to the top of the learning ladder—step by step by step—and reap the rewards of mastery in reading and spelling without all the struggles along the way.
Multisensory learning happens when sight, sound, and touch are used to learn new information. Children learn best when they can use all their senses. When children can see a concept as it is explained, hear about it, and then do it with hands-on activities, it is easier for them to learn and retain the new information.
In a multisensory spelling lesson, for example, your child can see a new word spelled out with letter tiles, hear and see a demonstration of a related spelling rule, try out the spelling rule for himself by manipulating the letter tiles, and say each sound of the new word as he writes it out on paper. This combination of activities uses multiple pathways to the brain.
Kids who struggle with reading and spelling often have a misconception: they think that the key to reading and spelling success is memorizing strings of letters. But the fact is that it’s very difficult for children to memorize words this way. They often just get frustrated and give up.
There’s a better way. Teaching phonograms helps kids see spelling as a doable task. A phonogram is a letter or letter combination that represents a sound. For example, CK is a phonogram that says /k/ as in clock; OY is a phonogram that says /oi/ as in oyster.
Each sound in a word can be represented by a phonogram. If your child learns the phonograms and which sounds they represent, reading or spelling the word will become so much easier. If he knows that the sound of /j/ at the end of a short-vowel word is spelled with DGE, the word bridge becomes simple to read and spell.
When you dump too much information into your child’s mental “funnel,” your child’s memory can only attend to a certain amount of the new information. Teaching one concept at a time respects the limitations of your child’s short-term memory, and allows concepts and skills to be more easily stored in the long-term memory. And that means significant amounts of meaningful learning can occur.
Children are really helped by knowing a few reliable spelling rules. For example, knowing the rules about doubling consonants at the end of words can help them spell words like floss, sniff, and fill. When your child learns trustworthy spelling rules—like the Floss Rule—he’ll have some guidelines to help him make the right letter choices.
On the surface it may seem to make sense to teach reading and spelling together. But in reality, although they are similar, reading and spelling require different teaching techniques and a different schedule. Reading is easier than spelling, and teaching these subjects separately is much more effective for most kids. Separating these subjects allows kids to progress as quickly as possible through reading while taking as much time as needed in order to become an effective speller.
Consistent review is the key to getting spelling facts and spelling words to “stick.” Teaching something once or twice does not mean your child has actually mastered it. Mastery takes time—and practice.
Review doesn’t have to be boring, either. Have your child practice spelling concepts with letter tiles and flashcards and through dictation. Use a variety of techniques to ensure that your child retains what you are teaching.
Short, frequent lessons are much better than longer, sporadic lessons. In a short lesson, your child’s attention is less likely to wander, and you’ll find that you can actually accomplish more. Keep the lessons upbeat and fast-paced, and use teaching tools and activities that engage the child’s interests.
Start with 15-20 minutes per day, five days a week. You can adjust the length of the lessons up or down according to your individual child’s attention span and specific needs. (Here are guidelines for lesson length for teaching reading and teaching spelling.)
In the ups and downs of the daily grind, we sometimes get so focused on teaching and “improving” our kids that we forget to encourage them. The first nine tips are all built into the All About Reading and All About Spelling programs, but putting the power of encouraging words to work in your homeschool is all up to you!
For many people, using encouraging words doesn’t always come naturally, so we created a way to help moms and dads remember how important it is. Be sure to visit our blog post on 7 Ways to Be the Teacher Your Child Needs and download the free poster as a reminder.
Teaching a struggling learner can be difficult, but the tips above can help make it a lot easier—and I know that from experience. Just take it one day at a time. Before you know it, your struggling learner will be doing things in life that you never dreamed were possible!
Is your child struggling in reading or spelling? We’re here to help! Post in the comments below, give us a call (715-477-1976), or send us an email (support@allaboutlearningpress.com).
Kenfack Nguevo Chirelle Lydie
says:Thanks immensely , I found it important.
Robin
says: Customer ServiceYou’re welcome! I’m glad this is helpful.
Danish zargi
says:My son has hard time learning
Robin
says: Customer ServiceDanish,
I’m sorry to hear your son is struggling. I hope many of the tips and suggestions in this article will be helpful for you to help him.
Here are some other articles that may help too:
The “No Gaps” Approach to Reading and Spelling
Signs of a Reading Problem
Helping Kids Sound Out Words
How to Teach Phonograms
Let me know if you have specific questions or concerns. I’d be happy to help.
Kelita.
says:My son is 2nd grader struggling with reading. Please help me with the materials i need to teach him to read and spell.
Robin
says: Customer ServiceKelita,
I’m glad to help. All About Reading and All About Spelling are designed to take the struggle out of learning to read and spell!
Let me know if you have questions about this “No Gaps” Approach to Reading and Spelling or need help with placement or anything else. I’m happy to help!
Margaret Maphisa
says:Definitely it’s very helpful and easy to understand I’m so grateful my grandson is in grade 2 he repeated twice but still don’t understand to read or spelling but by your help I’m so grateful God bless you
Robin
says: Customer ServiceMargaret,
I hope many of the tips and suggestions in this article will be helpful for you to help your grandson. It sounds like he also has memory issues, so our free How to Help Your Child’s Memory ebook will be useful as well.
Here are some other articles that may help too:
The “No Gaps” Approach to Reading and Spelling
Signs of a Reading Problem
Helping Kids Sound Out Words
How to Teach Phonograms
Let me know if you have specific questions or concerns. I’d be happy to help.
Yhadira
says:My twins daughter are 9 years old and are in the third grade. They have been struggling their whole life with schoolwork
Margaret Maphisa
says:My grandson is in grade 2 he can’t read or do spelling when I teach him today next day he forgets
Robin
says: Customer ServiceI’m so sorry to hear your daughtersSigns of a Reading Problem are struggling, Yhadira. Hopefully you will find the tips in this article helpful. Here are some other articles you may find helpful as well:
The “No Gaps” Approach to Reading and Spelling
Helping Kids Sound Out Words
How to Teach Phonograms
If you have specific questions or concerns, I’m happy to help!
Di
says:I have a grandson, 2nd grader who is a glitchy learner. He is below benchmarks. One day knows it all the next has never heard of it.
Robin
says: Customer ServiceDi,
I’m sorry to hear your grandson is having difficulties. It is somewhat common for those with learning disability to do as you described, learning well some days but struggling greatly on other days.
If you have specific concerns or questions, please let me know. I’m happy to help.
Marriah
says:I have an 8 year old in 2nd grade who is struggling with reading, we are in the process of potentially switching curriculum mid year and really considering AAR. There are some really great tips for teaching him and also some for me to realize how much patience he needs.
Robin
says: Customer ServiceMarriah,
I’m sorry to hear your child is struggling. Do you have any questions or specific concerns? I’m happy to help with placement with All About Reading or any other concerns you have may have.
Maria gomez
says:Help with a failing grades 9nth grade student
Robin
says: Customer ServiceMaria,
I’m sorry your student is struggling with school. The first step will be to speak with his teachers and school personal on what can be done to help him. Without knowing the root causes of the failing grades, it’s hard to offer any suggestions on how to help.
Pulane
says:My daughter is struggling a lot in grade 7 i dont know what else i can do
Robin
says: Customer ServiceI’m sorry to hear your daughter is struggling, Pulane.
I hope the tips in this article may be helpful, but here are some additional articles that will be useful for you:
Signs of a Reading Problem
The “No Gaps” Approach to Reading and Spelling
How to Teach Phonograms
Break the “Word Guessing” Habit
Using All About Spelling with Older Students
Please let me know if you have specific concerns or questions. I’m happy to help!
Mamosa Marumo
says:My son is in grade 3 and ten years old,, he struggling always failed please help
Robin
says: Customer ServiceMamosa,
I’m sorry to hear your son is struggling.
There are a lot of helps in this article. In addition, here are some other articles.
Signs of a Reading Problem
The “No Gaps” Approach to Reading and Spelling
Segmenting: A Critical Skill for Spelling
Helping Kids Sound Out Words
I hope this helps some, but please let me know what your specific concerns are.
Mr Tosin Olushola
says:Good day, my son is 8 years old he forget things so fast what you teach him some minutes ago if you ask him he will be looking as if he eating it for the first time
Robin
says: Customer ServiceMr. Olushola,
I’m sorry to hear your son is struggling with memory. We have a free ebook on how to Help Your Child’s Memory that I think you will find very helpful.
Thomas Clarence
says:Thank you for helping me to understand that a struggling learner has to work harder than others around them to accomplish a similar task. I think my son is behind in reading comprehension because he reads a lot slower than most of his peers. It might be a good idea for me to find a tutor my son can work with so that he can catch up with his peers.
Robin
says: Customer ServiceYou’re welcome, Thomas. I’m glad this article was helpful for you.
Betty Msoni
says:I have a child who has a challenge in reading and spelling.
Robin
says: Customer ServiceI’m sorry to hear your child is struggling, Betty! Here are some resources that may help you:
Signs of a Reading Problem
Help Your Child’s Memory
How to Teach Phonograms
Helping Kids Sound Out Words
Segmenting: A Critical Skill for Spelling
I will be happy to help with any specific concerns or questions you may have.
Mamosa Marumo
says:My son struggle with English
Robin
says: Customer ServiceI’m sorry to hear your son is struggling, Mamosa. I hope you find the tips and suggestions in this blog post helpful.
Here are some articles that may also help:
The “No Gaps” Approach to Reading and Spelling
Signs of a Reading Problem
How to Teach Phonograms
Helping Kids Sound Out Words
Segmenting: A Critical Skill for Spelling
If you have specific questions or concerns, I’d be happy to help if I can.
Betty Msoni
says:She forget very quickly when she is taught even in class.
Precious
says:This is really helpful
Robin
says: Customer ServiceI’m glad this is helpful, Precious.
Michelle
says:I am very interested in All About Reading and Spelling. My husband and I are parents to 9 children, we homeschool, and we live a chemical-free lifestyle. Therefore, we use a lot of the finances to feed and clothe everyone, and to provide a home, transportation, and everything else. I was sure every “curriculum” I purchased throughout the years would be beneficial. Not so. Now, I try to find free resources, but it’s like throwing together pieces of this and that. It’s not consistent and my children who struggle with reading, spelling, and writing are revealing that they need more structure. Perhaps in time I will be able to purchase this curriculum. It looks like what we need.
Robin
says: Customer ServiceMichelle,
Yes, many children need more incremental and explicit instruction to be successful with reading and spelling. Let me know if you have questions about All About Reading and All About Spelling.
Oreoluwa Ogunjobi
says:This is very helpful
Robin
says: Customer ServiceI’m glad it’s helpful, Oreoluwa.
Helvi
says:It’s so helpful coz I was giving up on my ten year old son, who doesn’t wanna make time for his school work
Robin
says: Customer ServiceI’m glad this is helpful, Helvi! If you have questions, I’m happy to help.
Cherice
says:All very helpful. I believe it’s very important to remember that one day my child will know how to do all the things that they are struggling with now. They will one day know how to count and to read, and this is very encouraging and a reminder that what is important is getting to know my child, understand their strengths and their weaknesses and learning how to best help them to succeed!
Robin
says: Customer ServiceYes, such a great perspective, Cherice! It does take consistent work, but in time they do master all these difficult things. They’ll get there!
Joanne Salva Cruz
says:Thanks All About Reading!Your tips are helpful for my 8 yr old daughter who has APD!Excited for the colored books.I hope I can get this for my daughter who has been struggling with reading and comprehension.
Robin
says: Customer ServiceJoanne,
I’m so happy to hear that the tips were helpful for your daughter! Thank you for letting us know!
Miranda
says:Thank you for the tips. I have a child who is 8 and still cannot read words. He’s great with narration, memorization, math, but struggles with reading.
Robin
says: Customer ServiceI’m so sorry your child is struggling like this, Miranda. I hope this article helps, but please let me know if you have questions or need additional help. I’m happy to do so!
Renate Auktor
says:I’m hoping I have found something to help my dyslexic son finally learn to read.
Robin
says: Customer ServiceRenate,
I’m sorry your son is struggling with reading. Do you have any questions or concerns I can help you with? I’m happy to help!
Angie B
says:As a beginner homeschooling family these tips have come at such a great time. Thank you all so much!
Robin
says: Customer ServiceYou’re welcome, Angie! And if you ever have questions or concerns, please ask. We’re happy to help!
Amy
says:Stumbled upon this post and it’s very timely because my son just asked me why some words have double letters at the end. I just showed him the FLOSS video and he used it hours later when writing.
Robin
says: Customer ServiceWonderful, Amy! I love that the FLOSS Rule could be helpful for him so quickly!
Pamela
says:Great article! I just started using your spelling program and it’s excellent! Thank you!
Robin
says: Customer ServiceThanks, Pamela! It’s great to hear that All About Spelling is working well for you!
Andrea
says:This is such helpful information. The right tools to teach a child who struggles in a specific area like spelling is exactly what I need.
Robin
says: Customer ServiceI’m glad this is so helpful for you, Andrea! If you have questions or need more help, please ask. We are happy to help!
Brenda
says:I love these steps. I’ve had a lot of success with All About Reading when nothing else worked, and look forward to more success with All About Reading.
Brenda
says:I am teaching a struggling learning and there is a lot of wisdom in these steps. Short lessons and frequent repetition is especially important. I’ve had a lot of success with All About Reading when nothing else worked, and look forward to more success with All About Reading.
Robin
says: Customer ServiceThank you sharing that short lessons and fequent repetition has help your struggling learner, Brenda!
Ruth
says:Thank-you very much for developing a comprehensive program for struggling readers.
Robin
says: Customer ServiceYou are so very welcome, Ruth! Marie knows what it is like to teach struggling learners, and teaching her own son led directly to her developing All About Reading and All About Spelling. You can see a video where she shares her son’s story here, Failure is Not an Option.
Shelley Scoll
says:I have used AAR with all 5 of my child and all of my children are avid readers. I credit AAR with the reason they excel so much in reading.
Robin
says: Customer ServiceI’m excited to hear that all 5 of your children are such great readers, Shelley! It’s wonderful to know that All About Reading played a part in that too. Thank you.
Kim Slease
says:Number 9 was the key for us while using AAR and AAS. It felt like it took forever to get through a level but it worked!
Robin
says: Customer ServiceKim,
Yes! Short lessons done consistently is a powerful tool for struggling learners!